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Ten Family-Friendly Movies

As a father of 7, my kids range from ages 20 to 3.  Finding movies we can all sit down to watch and enjoy can be challenging.  Usually, we have to divide and conquer – the older kids watch something that would scare (or bore) the younger kids; the little ones watch something entirely different.  But sometimes we find a fun movie that everyone can enjoy together.  Below are 10 movies that fit this category.

Before I launch into the list, a word about what qualifies for this list and what doesn’t.  To make the list, the movie must have a real story – steadily rising conflict to a climax and a conclusion.  This is the stuff of good stories.  The story must be plausible and thought-provoking so the older kids don’t get bored .  The movie can not have excessive violence between people.  Mild representations of such violence for a legitimate purpose are acceptable if they contribute to the story, are limited in duration and are not gory.  Situational, non-personal violence is acceptable for the same purpose and with the same caveats.  The movie may not play excessively on fear or over-develop a suspenseful situation to elicit the sensation of fear.  And lastly, the movie must be well-acted, contain quality cinematography, move forward with a reasonable pace (which often disqualifies old movies), avoid profanity and have a morally acceptable ending.

As you might imagine, meeting all these criteria is difficult to do.  Pixar seems to do a good job at it and several of their movies are on the list.  Disney used to do so as well, but only a few recent films qualify.  Here’s the initial list.  It’s not in any particular order and some may not be of interest to your family.  Links are provided to Amazon.com for more details on the films.

1. Incredibles
2. Snowball Express
3. Captain Johnno
4. Hot Lead and Cold Feet
5. Inside Out
6. National Treasure
7. The Ghost and Mr. Chicken
8. Frozen
9. Cars
10. The Lego Movie

Some of these movies are right on the line of passing the test – for instance National Treasure has some bones in it, and slanders Charles Carroll by saying he was a Mason.  Captain Johnno is not a funny movie (which is not a requirement) but is a moving story.  On the whole these movies fit the requirements and are good family fare.

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Is the Latin Mass “Rigid”?

It hasn’t even been 50 years since the Roman Catholic Church changed the Mass from the ancient Latin-based Tridentine form to the Novus Ordo (New Order) of 1969.  The principal rationale for the radical change in form was that the Latin Mass was too “rigid”.  Pope Francis recently repeated this position in a November 11, 2016 interview with the Jesuit publication Civiltà Cattolica.  In contrast, by turning the priest to face the people, saying the prayers in the vernacular, requiring responses from the congregation and adding a handshake, the New Mass was designed to be community-building.  It turns out, however, that the New Mass is far more rigid than the Latin Mass, and parish communities that celebrate it appear to be painfully divided.

I was born in 1968 and almost my entire life I attended the New Mass.  I even served at the altar from age 8.  Recently, however, I was invited to attend the Latin Mass, and after attending now for more than four months, I am struck by how inapposite is the canard that the Latin Mass is rigid.  On the contrary, the Latin Mass is very organic and the New Mass suffers from extreme rigidity.

During a celebration of the Tridentine Latin Mass, the people and the priest together face East – the direction associated with the return of Christ.  Since the priest does not use a microphone, his position at the altar indicates the part of the Mass that is being prayed.  Portions of the Mass may also be sung in Latin by a choir.  The people may follow along with a translation of the Mass in their missals, read the inspiring prayers in Latin if they are so inclined, or say other prayers if they wish.  In general, there are few responses from the congregation, no one is looking at you, and you are free to assist in the re-presentation of Christ’s sacrifice on the cross in a manner that you choose. Does that sound rigid?  One is never truly out of step with the celebration of the Mass – particularly since the position of the priest, and well-timed bells, are always available to turn your attention to the worship at critical points.

In contrast, the New Mass requires lock-step responses from all present, at almost every moment of the Mass.  Failure to comply gives one the feeling he has not adequately “participated.”  Furthermore, there is little room for private prayer at the New Mass.  Since rote responses are almost continuously required, and since the spoken words of the priest and hymns are broadcast with a loadspeaker and readily understood in the vernacular, the mind has no rest to formulate a personal prayer.  Such forced participation – which demands continuous attention and response from the congregation – is truly rigid.

I have not polled those who worship at the Latin Mass I attend, but I think it is fairly safe to say they are likely in concurrence on matters of faith and morals – at least if bumper stickers are any indication.  On the contrary, priests I know who celebrate the New Mass are regularly accosted after Mass for any thoughts in a sermon or homily that break with the liberal orthodoxy on matters pertaining to sex, the environment or economics.  It’s not just matters of prudential judgment either, where disagreement is permissible.  How ironic that with its heightened focus on inclusiveness and community, the New Mass has achieved the opposite of what was intended – division and factionalism.  In contrast, worshippers at the Latin Mass enjoy the community of a lively and common faith that the Church desired in 1969.